Use It In Your Learning Environment
Small shifts in the language people use to refer to the self can influence their ability to regulate their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in stress-related contexts. Self-talk can involve using "I" statements, "you" referring to the self, or "distanced self-talk" using one's own name and other non-first person pronouns. Distanced self-talk has been found to be particularly effective in adults' Self-regulation of Emotions.
Instructors can help adult learners identify self-talk traps, utilize positive affirmations, use visual cues reflecting positivity, create boundaries, and check-in with their emotions to build awareness of emerging negative self-talk patterns or ruminations that can impede learning and goal-attainment. Adult learners can be encouraged to keep a journal noting their self-talk for deeper self-reflection and recognition of self-generated mental patterns that may be maladaptive. Analysis and labeling of self-talk can lead to deeper self-awareness and recognition of potential triggers toward negative self-talk. Examples of positive self-talk can be gathered over a specific time frame then repeated for the adult learner to discover and notice growth in self-regulating internal dialog patterns. Specific activities could include creating artifacts or visuals reflecting positive affirmations or positive self-talk, such as positive affirmation mood boards, My Best Self posters, or interactive discussions of examples of positive or negative self-talk in literature, news, and social media posts for group analysis and discourse.
Workforce training and edtech products can model and encourage positive self-talk by framing positive statements related to effort and specific strategy use into the feedback provided to adult learners. Scenarios can be created in which characters utilize positive and negative self-talk to be identified and corrected by the adult learners and case studies can be explored. Goal-setting components could weave in positive affirmations and model effective positive self-talk. Products for adult learners can also include features that promote self-reflection, record self-talk and internal dialogue while interacting with the platform, and track and label their self-talk for later analysis.